Hello! I’m Chantal, teen life coach and psychologist who’s helping teen girls build confidence, handle tough stuff, and grow into their most authentic selves. I’ve curate tools to make your journey as a parent, auntie, or supportive professional a little easier, and a lot more connected. These are the things I use, love, and trust to spark calm, courage, and real conversations with teens.
Part II on the subject of Fear- this works everytime!
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Hi Reader, Part II on the subject of Fear. When I work with teen girls who feel stuck in fear, at some point I invite them to have a conversation with it. WHY? Because when we keep things in the shadows they feel bigger, more impossible to tackle. When we shine some light on it we see it differently, giving us the chance to interact with it differently. STORYTIME. My son and his girlfriend were taking a walk in the dark and came back to tell us there was a large dead animal down once of the paths so they turned around and went another way to be safe. Jon, my youngest, and myself equipped ourselves with our gear and headed down the path to ensure all was ok. As we got to the spot we shone our flashlights on the black outline that looked like a large animal laying on it's side. Turns out it was a washed up rubber inner tube, the kind you float on the rivers with! Shadows can be deceiving. And so can fear. If we were to have a conversation with it instead. We might ask, If you could chat with fear right now, what would it say to you? The answers sometimes sound something like:
When we stop fighting fear and start listening to it, something shifts. Compassion grows. Because fear isn’t trying to ruin our lives. It’s trying to protect us. I try to think of it as fear is doing it's best to keep me safe. I often say to it. To me. Invitation to try with your teen (or with yourself):
Fear doesn’t need to be silenced. Fear just needs to be understood. With gratitude, Chantal Psychologist| Teen Coach| Part of the Pyramid Psychology Team Come Make Wacky Never Done Before Gingerbread Houses With Us! The Happiness Path (THP) Hangouts A chance to do a hands-on craft that’s totally beginner-friendly, a little bit of easy movement (no pressure, no performance), and have a few laughs 👉 Are you in? Register here |
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Hello! I’m Chantal, teen life coach and psychologist who’s helping teen girls build confidence, handle tough stuff, and grow into their most authentic selves. I’ve curate tools to make your journey as a parent, auntie, or supportive professional a little easier, and a lot more connected. These are the things I use, love, and trust to spark calm, courage, and real conversations with teens.
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