What's waiting on the other side of fear? Hint it's not a monster. Final Part on Fear this week.


So glad you had the courage to open this email Reader,

What a video on Will Smith's skydiving experience taught me about fear.

I distincly remember it. He said, “God placed the best things in life on the other side of fear.”

That line stopped me in my tracks.

Because I’ve seen it. In myself and in the teen girls I work with.

  • A girl who had the courage to set a boundary in a friendship.
  • A teen who tries out for a team even though her knees are shaking.
  • A young person who decides to have a conversation with her boyfriend about something that is not feeling right.

Every single time, there’s that same moment before, the trembling, the anticipation- and then the lightness and clarity that come after.

That’s what courage really looks like. Not the absence of fear, but moving through and with it.

Fear can be a compass pointing to what matters most. It says, “This is important. Be careful… and be courageous.”

Invitation for reflection:

  • What’s something that’s been worrying you (or your teen) lately?
  • What might that worry (fear/anxiety) be revealing about what matters most?
  • What’s one next small step toward it?

Maybe life really does place the best things on the other side of fear.

Let’s keep walking this path together with presence, courage, and love.
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With gratitude,

Chantal

Psychologist| Teen Coach| Part of the Pyramid Psychology Team

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