If you've ever said "it's fine" when it wasn't, READ THIS


You opened this email up so I'm guessing you've found yourself in the past (or now even) saying "it's fine" when it's really not, am I right Reader?

It often starts when we are young.... and Teen girls are often masters of keeping the peace.

I know eye rolls and sarcasm are also things they are masters of lol, but I'm talking about the "it's fine" epidemic.


Staying friends with the group even when they’re not getting the invites like everybody else. Smiling and saying “it’s fine” when school or social moments feel disappointing or frustrating. Starting to share something that bothered them… and then going quiet when well-meaning adults jump in with, “That’s just how it is, right?”

From the outside, it can look like maturity, flexibility, kindness.


But underneath saying “it’s fine” again and again can mean they’re minimizing their own needs, suppressing their feelings, or wondering if their emotions even matter. 💔💔💔

In my latest blog, I explore what happens when teen girls keep the peace and the real cost 🤑🤑🤑 of “it’s fine.”

👉 Read the full blog: Teen girls keep the peace but at what cost?
https://pyramidpsychology.com/teen-girls-keep-the-peace-but-at-what-cost/

If this resonates with you as a parent, caregiver, or someone who supports teen girls, pass it on to someone you care about.

More on this soon 💛

With so much gratitude,

Chantal

Teen Coach| Psychologist | Par of the Pyramid Psychology Team

- Inspiring teen girls to build unbreakable mindsets 🧠💪🏻

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Pyramid Psychology- Inspiring Teen Girls to Build Unbreakable Mindsets

Hello! I’m Chantal, teen life coach and psychologist who’s helping teen girls build confidence, handle tough stuff, and grow into their most authentic selves. I’ve curate tools to make your journey as a parent, auntie, or supportive professional a little easier, and a lot more connected. These are the things I use, love, and trust to spark calm, courage, and real conversations with teens.

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